Best way to snynchronize

Well one easy thing is to use imap or exchange if your email supports it. That way if you delete an email it's gone on the server too. The other thing is to use dropboxes to share files. I don't know of anything that automatically starts to erase and change files on another computer. Why don't you just put all of the documents you add or change in your downloads folder and share them with the desktop? Just copy all the files over and sort them when done. Or use online sharing so that if you are away from your house you can get the files from home.

 

I use a program called ChronoSync which works flawlessly (after adjusting the synchronization criteria suitably). It is commercial software, but it has a trial period and is not terribly expensive.