I also didn't pay $60,000 for my phone, either 
I'm more careful about Tesla charging mostly due to the cost of the car -- when I was commuting I only charged to 85%, and at work we had free ChargePoint chargers that were fairly slow (6.6 kWh). My home Tesla charger is just the 30A (about 5 kWh) and I still supercharge whenever I need a big charge or if it's convenient. But 100% SOC is only for long trips. Right now since it just sits in the garage mostly except for a takeout run or groceries, I keep it between 45% and 80% SOC.
My phone? Eh, I keep it 2 years, sometimes less, I charge it slow-ish for the most part, but I do keep it relatively topped off between 90-100% most of the time. Planning to tinker with Magsafe and a 20W charger, but I also have a lightning cable sticking out of my couch on a slow charger that I use during the day. I just use what's at hand, and if I needed to, I wouldn't worry about a fast charge with the USB-C cable or Magsafe.
I'm more careful about Tesla charging mostly due to the cost of the car -- when I was commuting I only charged to 85%, and at work we had free ChargePoint chargers that were fairly slow (6.6 kWh). My home Tesla charger is just the 30A (about 5 kWh) and I still supercharge whenever I need a big charge or if it's convenient. But 100% SOC is only for long trips. Right now since it just sits in the garage mostly except for a takeout run or groceries, I keep it between 45% and 80% SOC.
My phone? Eh, I keep it 2 years, sometimes less, I charge it slow-ish for the most part, but I do keep it relatively topped off between 90-100% most of the time. Planning to tinker with Magsafe and a 20W charger, but I also have a lightning cable sticking out of my couch on a slow charger that I use during the day. I just use what's at hand, and if I needed to, I wouldn't worry about a fast charge with the USB-C cable or Magsafe.