This.
Apple are being an utter pain in the backside here, dangling proper eGPU usage, only to stick with precisely one massively overpriced out-dated non-upgradable model that offers the TWO TB3 ports required for XDR usage (or even LG 5K3K's with daisy chaining functionalities).
Why even bother Apple, go away, and go back to your little drawing board...again.
(and yes, this is Apple's fault, because they initiate third-party brands to offer products to fit their ranges, just as we have Promise and Blackmagic doing internal products for the new cg Mac Pro right from release.)
Well, consider why the other eGPUs can't do this... they need a particular TB controller, for one. If there is enough market for it, I'm sure someone will make one. But, don't expect it to be THAT much less expensive. It's going to cost more than a GPU and a case.