My dealer put an aftermarket bluetooth unit into my car (called ConVerse), and I'm having some issues that I hope someone can help me resolve. The unit works great, even lets me stream audio, so that's all fine, but what is NOT fine is that every tiny sound from the phone, or even interacting with the phone, causes the unit to pause my stereo. So I can be listening to something and then an alert comes to the phone and I hear the "ding" from the iphone over my speakers and the stereo stops (TELE-MUTE). It's annoying. How do I get the phone to not send those sounds out via bluetooth and just send phonecalls, the thing I actually want over bluetooth?