Bluetooth Preferences Problem

I was wondering if anyone is having the same problem as me! System Preferences keeps quitting on me when I go into the Bluetooth panel. Consequently I cannot set it up as I want. I am running 10.2.8, Bluetooth 1.2.1 iCal 1.5.1 and iSync 1.2.1 with a DST 120 D-Link if that's any help. Bluetooth is working. I have re-downloaded and installed the Bluetooth software a couple of times.

Also, does anyone know how to copy a .jpg off my iMac onto my SE T160? The file goes onto the phone (via Bluetooth) but will not display. I just get a red cross!

Thanks!