Boyfriend snooping in my texts and gmails

Discussion in 'iPhone Tips, Help and Troubleshooting' started by desertwoman, Dec 20, 2012.

  1. desertwoman macrumors newbie

    Dec 20, 2012
    My boyfriend recently told me I'd better "be careful" because he could see all my iPhone 4 texts. He then proceeded to show me them on his iPhone. He also commented on some of my gmail messages (received on both iPhone and computer). This, obviously, is a privacy nightmare!

    How is he doing this and how do I cut off his access?
  2. ECUpirate44 macrumors 603


    Mar 22, 2010
    Change your passwords and find a new boyfriend.
  3. SnowLeopard OSX macrumors 6502a

    SnowLeopard OSX

    Dec 5, 2012
    Change your passwords as people have suggested earlier. Although -- it strikes me as kind of odd that he was so comfortable to confront you on the fact that he's been snooping around on your user accounts!
  4. Baggio macrumors 6502

    Oct 18, 2012
    Obviously, you are doing something you are not supposed to be doing. :p

    Change your password for gmail. If he is seeing your text messages, you must have iMessage setup on the same apple account that he is using as well. I would suggest getting a new apple ID.
  5. Menel macrumors 603


    Aug 4, 2011
    Find a new boyfriend, this is unhealthy. ASAP.

    That's like unforgiveable.

    Change all your passwords, get a nerd friend to help you.
  6. Black Magic macrumors 68020

    Black Magic

    Sep 30, 2012
    Maybe he has the password to your icloud account and is using it on his phone when he wants to snoop? Change the passwords on all your accounts like others have suggested.

    Dump him. That probably is a huge sign of things to come if you stay.

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