Me and my girl have been together for almost 3 years, but it's very obvious that it's over now. I've been trying to hold us together for the past few months, and I've been successful at it, but man, even though I've managed to keep us together, it's no fun at all and ultimately it's futile. If her heart isn't in it anymore, then I don't want us to be together anymore. I'd have to be literally retarded to not be aware that she's checked out of this relationship even though we're still officially together. If she takes the time to change her facebook profile photo, but hasn't emailed in a couple of days, then even a fool can see that our relationship is no longer a priority. I'm sure I could convince her that we should be in closer contact with one another, but it shouldn't be something that she gets talked in to, it should be something that she wants to do. She just moved a couple of states away, and I think we could've found a way to make it work, or at least we should've given it a shot, but whatever. One person in a relationship can pull the entire load for only so long. If she isn't willing to put in the effort to stay together any longer, then I don't want to be the one keeping us together anymore. Stick a fork in it, it's done. Anyway, thanks for listening to my vent. Sometimes it's easier to talk to a crowd of anonymous strangers rather than anyone you know personally.