My bumper makes me feel womanly... But I'm good at masking my emotions during the day when in company of others... It's at night where I cry myself to sleep... The slender figure of my phone takes it's toll on my self respect as I'm alone with just my thoughts and ip4... But I do come to the conclusion that my girly childlike hands can't fist a beastly man case like the otterbox... I remain positive though as I continually eat my wheaties in hopes of being able to handle a case like that one day...