Sorry, my apoligies for this post being so long, but just so much to say. I can't figure out whats up with this guy and what I should do from here. We've been talking everyday non stop for the past 6 months now (text), and we've hung out twice. We didn't first hang out until a good 3 months after we started talking, and the second time was last week when we went to a movie. The thing is that, he keeps telling me that hes very much into me and enjoys talking to me and wants to continue with what we have now. But when I try to make plans for us to do something, he always ignores it by not answering back or says "Sure, Id love that too" but doesnt follow up with anything more. He doesnt ever ask me when I would like to do something, what I would like to do, what are my plans for the weekend. I always have to bring it up myself, and when I say "lets go to _____ this weekend"..."what are your plans for this weekend"...."what are you doing on new years"....he will tell me what his plans are, but wont ask about me. I know he was testing me at one point to see if I really was into him, cause about a month ago, I was busy in the morning and I wasnt able to talk. I didnt hear back from him for the entire day and the next morning he said some joke like, what you dont like me anymore. I said I was busy and I didnt hear from him so I didnt reply. He said "well we usually talk a lot more, lately we havent been talking very much." I just told him that its not that Im not very talkactive, but that Im not the kind of person who will constantly send non stop texts one after the other if the person on the other end hasnt replied back. Im just not like that. Its annoying and impatient. Last week, we originally both agreed to do something for the weekend, I would ask what day is good for him and he would keep saying "not sure..." Nothing else. So Fri, Sat I figured he didnt want to do anything and I wasnt going to ask again. Until late Sat afternoon, he asked if I wanted to see a movie that same day, I was shocked, and I said sure. I would have liked more notice, but whatever. I thought he was taking me out and was going to at least offer to pay, but there was no signs or implications of him at least offering so I ended up paying for both of us. I dont want to make myself look cheap and only pay for myself. He didnt offer anything, not even the common courteous "are you sure?...ok, next time is on me...Ill pay for myself at least....well thats very nice of you" which I ALWAYS DO if someone offers to pay for me for anything, because its being being polite and courteous. In fact if someone else offers to pay for me, I always insist on at least offering to pay my share. Maybe Im the only one who always does this? Also, he didnt even say thanks what so ever. I was not impressed. I know sometimes people can forget to say thanks, but still....saying thanks is generally not something that people tend to forget to say. Maybe you guys disagree. I could give him the benefit of the doubt that perhaps he did forget, but also he probably knew about it and intentionally avoided saying thanks. After the movie, he said that he still wants to go see this play with me that we've been talking about. Its playing until after the new year and he's like "I got free tickets from work for both of us." I thought hmmmm. I asked when he wanted to go, and again, he just gave me a vague answer "Dont know yet, I'll have to see." Before this, he also told me that he wants to go do these Christmas activities together, and when I asked him when he wanted to go...he would just give me the "Not sure yet" Well we continued heavily talking for the few days after the movie, but I started to get a feeling that hes playing games with me and toying with me. Because when I ask how his day is, he will tell me, but wont ask about me. I asked how his Christmas eve dinner was and about his party at his moms house over Christmas, and he would tell me, but wouldnt ask a single question about me and what I was doing, and who I was having over. I was bored to be quite honest. I just felt like Ive been talking to myself. Couple days ago, I asked what his NYE plans were and if he wanted to hang out and he didnt reply back and ignored the question. Couple days after, he said hi again, but totally ignored the question. So I think that could be the final sign as far as him not interested in hanging out. I aint asking anymore. We talked briefly some more for that day, and then I got the same vibe. I feel like im talking to myself. I was just fed up so before bed, I said have a good night (which I never say, so he probably took it as a farewell goodbye). Its been a day now and I havent heard from him and I havent text him with hi how are you, good morning like we usually do in the mornings. I dont know what to do. Hes probably thinking now "Oh I havent heard from her....Im assuming shes no longer interested in me" when thats obviously not the case. He hasnt heard from me, cause Im not getting a good vibe to be honest and if hes just talking to me, just to be nice, then just tell me because Im looking for someone who wants to hang out and go do stuff, not just text everyday for the sake of talking to another human being. If thats want he wants, then we can just be strictly pen pals who never hang out.