I didn't get the retina model MBP because 8gb is wayyy to little. I currently have 16 and I max that using service simulation systems and stat files working massive data sets, and when using select CS5.5 programs, 16GB gives me a huge advantage over 8. As I type this, I am using about 10 gigs doing a variety of programs. Until less than a year ago, 4 GB was more than enough. Now 16 is barely enough. So in my opinion, 8GB while still a lot by today's standards, will probably not be so much in a year or three. So if you are limited in that you cannot upgrade, I would personally say max it, because a year and a half down the road you won't have that luxury.
The CPU in the MBP is a monster, and any SSD will be future proof for many, many years. The GPU is also as advanced as can be...and unless you do gaming or a few intense design work, a GPU doesn't go obsolete very quickly (for what I do, the ones from 3 generations ago would have done fine). IMO, the top limiting factor of the future proof will be RAM, and so 16GB is the way to go. But that just my three cents.