Basically, this is a rant because there doesn't appear to be a solution. I do NOT have CarPlay set up, but the phone is connected via Bluetooth. If I have a wired headset attached through the new dongle and I start my car, why does the CarPlay take over?!? If the stereo notices the phone is connected, it randomly starts playing my music library on shuffle with no way to shut it off. This is so stupid. The only way to stop this is to unpair the iPhone. Great job Apple, NOT!