Threads like this are always in danger of boiling over because, at the end of the day, no-one can tell anyone else how to raise their children.
In Glasgow, where I live, it's often said that kids are growing up too quickly ... but then that's the argument across the world.
I feel my point is a very valid one however, in that as they get older what do you buy them? Children always want bigger and better as they get older, and they do not forget what they had before and what is now "old".
The sheer thought of any parent here in Glasgow buying their 5 year old a £949 iMac would be laughed at, and rightly so because when they're 10 will they want the latest 24" iMac, or how about the latest iPhone? When they're 16 will they want a Mac Pro? And when they're 18 and wanting that first car, don't dare think of driving a Ford, Renault, or Honda into the driveway ... it better be a Bentley, a Ferarri, or a Mercedes because you've introduced your children on expensive goods too quickly. That's my take on it.
I think there's a little of parents wanting to give their children what they never had, which is perfectly acceptable, but when I look at my own son I simply cannot fathom him owning the very computer I do my work on, it just seems surreal and utterly disgusting, for lack of a better word.
In the UK especially, society seems to look at every computer, regardless of what it does, as a "toy". Gaming especially is a huge problem here, with parents ignoring the 18 certificates on games like Gears or War and Grand Theft Auto to let their 4 and 5 year olds use consoles built for the gamers who have grown up with the platform. My boy plays games on his Dad's first PlayStation, with Spyro the Dragon and Crash Bandicoot being two favourites! The first PlayStation, for example, launched when I was 16 years old ... and as I have grown up, so has the platform and the games have been geared towards those who have grown with it. That's my point.
The bottom line is that if you spoil a child (and let's be honest, that's what this is) too soon, then the older they get the more they will demand. And when the time comes when you can't give them exactly what they want ... good luck. 😉