type this into terminal:
sudo nvram boot-args="iog=0x0"
works for me in mountain lion and worked in lion
source: http://osxdaily.com/2011/09/14/disa...n-a-macbook-pro-or-air-in-mac-os-x-10-7-lion/
this stopped working for me with the 10.8.2 update. most annoying.