If you've been around, you'd notice that I hate pointless lawsuits, such as one over this case would be. The sad part is, many people in this situation would listen to some crackpot lawyer who would say "Sue everybody! You deserve compensation! Screw the doctors!", but I DID NOT at any moment advocate them suing anyone. I merely made an observation about the overly-litigious society we're becoming. I really do feel sorry for the family that found out they lost their member after she was buried, and I'm also happy that the other family will be able to see their member recover and enjoy life again. The simple fact that these families have been understanding instead of calling up some scumbag who's sue his own mother.Boggle said:Ok, I definately should have tempered my comments. I'm sorry. I lost my temper and was inappropriate. But the post pissed me off.
His comments were thoughtless and mean. The idea that someone is "amazed" when people don't sue requires that you ASSUME the victims would AND SHOULD sue. It also implies that the author of the suggestion is in possession of all the facts. The post I quoted demonstrated no true consideration for the people who attempted to help the victims, the victims themselves, or the 2 families of the victims. It also showed a complete lack of experience around a physical trauma (particularly facial trauma) victim.
In my early 20's I worked on behalf of hospitals, doctors, and patients and have seen some very gruesome sites as a part of that experience. What I can tell you is this. The only people who are ever happy to hear someone suggest a lawsuit are contingency lawyers and people who already want to sue. The people who live and work with the kinds of horrible experiences don't appreciate such comments.
Sincerely,
Boggle.
Frankly, I'm quite insulted that you find my comments "thoughtless and mean," when you're obviously the one needing to think more before posting.
I'd like to thank mkrishnan, dynamicv, Diatribe, and Mr. Durden for actually understanding my post and replying with reason, instead of flying off the handle without understanding the intent behind it. (Wait, didn't you accuse me of not having all the facts?