Actually, since the mini display port cable is cheaper, it's a Good Thing. Rarely do you hit an Apple option that is LESS expensive. 😱
As for port sharing, meh. Not high on the list for most folks. But I used my 2010 a lot with another computer, and depending on what your needs you can accomplish a lot with over your network with VNC or just switching back to the other machine. It had firwire and I used the HD connected to it over the network, for example.