Ok, so I've come a long way since the "Friend Zone" thread. I now have a girlfriend and she's great ; she is the kind of person who always gives as much as she receives (as opposed to someone I knew who took everything without ever giving anything back). The only problem is, she's from a different world, socially. Let's say that I've had a much more posh upbringing than her...
Rationally, I have no problem at all with this notion. I don't care one bit about social stature or any of that bs. However, unconsciously, I feel a slight unease about certain situations. For instance, today we're going to my brother's birthday party. It will be the first time she'll meet anyone from my family or any of my friends (we've been only going out for a week). Lots of posh, pedantic people will be there... My GF has some awkward outfit choices (i.e. shoes with leopard dots, etc.) that perhaps wont be up to the standards of these people.
I know I shouldn't care about this at all, but something in my mind is making me nervous about this situation. I'm posting this hoping that I'll get comments such as "don't be such a n00b, if you like her, that's all that matters" or "dude, stop whining, what other people think about your GF is irrelevant". I wish I could control my mind and follow my rational advice which says "social stature is bs and a person's wardrobe doesn't determine their worth", hopefully I will. Thx for listening
Rationally, I have no problem at all with this notion. I don't care one bit about social stature or any of that bs. However, unconsciously, I feel a slight unease about certain situations. For instance, today we're going to my brother's birthday party. It will be the first time she'll meet anyone from my family or any of my friends (we've been only going out for a week). Lots of posh, pedantic people will be there... My GF has some awkward outfit choices (i.e. shoes with leopard dots, etc.) that perhaps wont be up to the standards of these people.
I know I shouldn't care about this at all, but something in my mind is making me nervous about this situation. I'm posting this hoping that I'll get comments such as "don't be such a n00b, if you like her, that's all that matters" or "dude, stop whining, what other people think about your GF is irrelevant". I wish I could control my mind and follow my rational advice which says "social stature is bs and a person's wardrobe doesn't determine their worth", hopefully I will. Thx for listening