Apologies, as I don't know what country you are writing from. But in this country, not buying property is, for my generation, a fate which is almost forced upon us. If I fast forwarded a year, in my first proper job as a graduate earning the average starting salary (£18-23,000), living in London, and I was looking for my own flat, I would have to take out a mortgage around 10x my salary!!
Gotcha. I can understand your situation completely. I lived just outside of London for two years and my parents and I were astonished at the cost of real estate in the United Kingdom and Europe in general. Is that due to taxes or just a high demand for property (e.g. not enough land for everyone, so the cost increases?)
As someone else has pointed out, the starting salary in the UK seems to be close to the starting salary in the States (where I am posting from) but the main difference is the availability of fairly inexpensive property and land, especially in the state that I'm from, Texas.
For instance, with enough searching, an individual in Texas could purchase land for about $8,000-$10,000 per acre. That's just the raw land, but it usually has water and electrical hook-ups. Obviously, planning and building a house increase the final cost, but it's not uncommon in Texas to have people buying several acres with a very comfortable house.
Granted, many locations in the United States, especially around major urban centers (e.g. Chicago, New York, San Francisco, etc) don't have land in abundance, and thus property prices are much, much higher.
I can definitely see the case for renting, especially if you are living in a larger city because of your profession. But due to the availability and relative affordability of land and houses in the United States, home ownership has become a fairly common goal for many families, hence the large and rapid growth of the suburbs outside of the cities.
Now, I don't care about how buoyant the property market may be, what a great investment for the future it may turn out to be, or leaving something behind for relatives or kids, if I took out a debt like that, I would not be able to sleep at night. If I ever lost my job, I would be destitute.
Again, speaking from a Texas perspective, I believe there is a law that allows you to declare your house as a "homestead" so that if you lose your job, and aren't able to make payments, the bank cannot seize it for a certain amount of time. This is intended to allow you time to go find another job without forcing you and your family from your home.
I can definitely understand the fear of having that much debt, especially with job security as shaky as it is these days, especially for people just entering the working world, but you'd also have to take into consideration that the majority of American's purchasing homes tend to be further along in their life, usually around 35-40 years of age and thus are less likely to switch or lose their jobs. By that point, most people probably have some savings to tide them over if they did lose their jobs, so again, home ownership and the debt that goes along with it, isn't too big of a concern.
If the housing market crashed (and who's to say it won't?), I would be throwing money down the drain (much more than the equivalent 'waste' you pay when you rent). Furthermore, if I bought a place, it'd be much worse than a place I could afford to rent.
I guess for me, a home represents more than a montetary investment, although it certainly represents one for many individuals. Honestly, my family has had a 150 acre farm in Ohio for the last 75 years that has been passed down from generation to generation. It's completely paid off and if anyone ever needs to retire, they can live out there.
I'd tend to think of a house, not as something to be flipped to make a profit, but more of a gift and a legacy for my children to have something to call their own when the time comes. There's nothing more secure than having a property that is completely paid off and that you hold the deed to.
The idea of property ownership as a signifier of wealth or comfort is an outdated idea for my generation. The baby-boomers got there before us, and royally screwed us over with their second homes and rent-to-buy investments.
I would assume that we're both fairly close in age...I'm 20, but I'm definitely looking forward to purchasing land and building a house.