If you want this forum to make a decision for you: everyone here will say go for the 8+
Apparently not, going by the poll numbers. At the moment, the XR is winning in a landslide (66 votes to 26). I, too, figured more people would vote for the 8+. Lots of threads on this forum lament the XR's loss of TouchID, and the lower pixel density, relative to the 8+.
That said, personally I'd absolutely go for the XR. For my purposes, it has a number of significant advantages: current-gen processor, superior camera (larger sensor and Smart HDR are the most significant camera upgrades in years), larger full-screen display, FaceID (personal preference over Touch ID), and considerably longer battery life. Those upgrades are important to
me - obviously, YMMV.
Yeah, I'm a little bummed about the display - Apple obviously could've used a panel with greater pixel density, and chose not to in order to further differentiate the XR from the XS. This annoys me in principle. But, what's done is done...it is what it is. 326ppi is OK for me, even if I'd prefer more pixels. Can't always get what you want. Again, for
me, this deficit is outweighed by rest of the XR's package, which I find really compelling.
All that aside, the XR's display isn't "720p-ish", not even close, especially since it's a different aspect ratio. In overall pixels, it actually is much closer to 1080p Full HD than to 720p HD.
Yep. 828p, to be precise.