Well, then, for those on this thread who enjoy haggling, - and the detailed recollections lead me to conclude that the 'chase' and 'sport' of competitive haggling is part of the whole excitement of the thing - does the good you have purchased or the price you have purchased it for matter more in your recollection?
So, in short, what is more important to you - price or product?
Ultimately, if it's something I'm interested in I'm probably going to be the price.
To be honest, though, for used items there is no "set in stone" price(unlike new retail items). If the price is fair or low, I'm not going to haggle.
On the other hand, if it's priced high but not out of reach for me, I will try to bring the price in line with where I'd like for it to be. Depending on what we're talking about, I might finally cough up the seller's asking price or I might walk away.
As an example, there's a fellow that often shows up at the watch shows I frequent who has a watch I'd like to have but I'm not slobbering at the mouth to buy it. It has a lot of issues, and to me it's probably a $50-60 watch because it's a Kentucky private label. To most other people, it's just a crummy low grade Illinois with the wrong dial and is probably worth $30 on a good day. The seller wants $100 for it, and is absolutely glued to that price-he's also had it for sale for at least 3 years.
If he were asking $75, I might consider it, but I'm probably one of the only people in the world(quite literally) who would pay a price that high for it.
But, again, if I see something on Ebay with a best offer, why would I
not try to save some money on it? If it's a unique or rare item, that's one thing, but for a commodity used item, I don't think that's a completely unreasonable approach.
And, I'll just throw in another quick anecdote. Not too long ago, I was discussing a computer here in the for sale section with a prospective seller. They were responding to a wanted to buy ad, but initially wouldn't give me a price-they instead insisted that I make an offer. I spent some time researching
sold listings on Ebay(I included links), and considering the problems that the seller stated with the item came back with an offer that was probably a bit low but not out of line. I made my offer expecting the seller to counter.
What I didn't expect was for the seller to come back with a number that was about 4.5x my initial offer-I could have bought a newer and completely functional example of the same model for what the seller wanted. My response was that we were just too far apart and I didn't think we'd be able to come to a deal, and left it at that.