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I just had the worst weekend of my life due to drinking. It has really affected my head. Basically I was at a party and my friends and new boss was there. I remember what happened upto a point and then nothing. Total blackout. Very scary. I'm still ill today and it was Friday night it happened. Do I have a problem? Probably!!!!!!!!
 
but just would like to find something I can drink.

I wouldn't worry about it; it's just as acceptable not to drink.

You can learn to like tastes - I used to loathe coffee. Now I drink espresso :rolleyes: I weaned myself onto the stuff drinking mocha frappuccinos that I found too strong initially, then moved onto cafe mocha, then onto latte. Now I can't imagine drinking a mocha anything. The sweetness would kill me!

I know what you mean about the strong alcohol taste - sometimes I like it, most times I don't. Although I do always like to know that I'm drinking something so I'm not a big fan of those cocktails that you can't taste the booze in.

If you really want to try drinking, beer generally works since it doesn't have a high alcohol content. Otherwise, try the clear spirits (vodka or gin - a decent brand though) mixed with a favoured soft drink or tonic with a slice of lime. Start with lots more mixer than spirit (10 to 1 say) and then bring it down to bar measure levels.
 
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I don't think anyone on this board is a fully developed alcoholic. I just can't picture a true alcoholic on this board asking about mac products and anticipating Apple site updates on Tuesdays.
 
I drink on the weekends. Do I have to drink to have fun on the weekends? No. I enjoy it, and I don't let it interfere with my school work. I also go to a school that is notorious for its drinking habits.

My social life wouldnt change. One of my roommates doesnt drink and the other 6 of us do. He has fun and will come to the bars with us (although he leaves early than we do).

As far as I know I am healthy. I work out everyday (except for the last two weeks, damn you school!). And like I said, I could give it up. I have a feeling that next year is when I really cut back.
 
I used to (then again who doesn't in college? ;) ) but I've cut that habit after a particularly nasty drunken night that I won't go into details on here.
Feel free to PM me with details.

For me, nothing beats the taste of sweet tea or a Coca-Cola.
Hmm. Maybe a Long Island Iced Tea would be up your alley. Whiskey and coke or rum and coke are both tasty too...and have that nice sweetness.

One night was particularly bad. No specifics will be divulged here. Some MRers know. At any rate, that night really changed the way I view and use alcohol. Since then I haven't gotten drunk. And got buzzed at MWSF '08 MR meet up :D and... that's about it.
Again, feel free PM me if you want. I could use some perspective.

I don't want to be an alcoholic, but just would like to find something I can drink.
Try a strawberry daiquiri, a hurricane or some other frozen drink. They are basically fruit smoothies with alcohol in them. You should not be able to taste the alcohol.

I hate the idea of giving up drink completely because I enjoy it, but I do worry some times that alcoholism might be in the family genes and that I could end up that way in years to come. That's probably paranoia, but I suppose there's no harm thinking about these things.

If you can not drink by choice, then you know you are fine. If you find that you cannot control your drinking, then you know you have a problem. My grandfather was a horrible alcoholic...to the point that he would drink perfume because it had alcohol in it. One of my aunt's is also an alcoholic. When she starts, she can't stop. Personally, I drink socially...not alone. Sometimes I drink a lot. Other times I don't drink at all. But I never drink because I have to. There are two good things I've discovered about myself: 1. I'm always aware, no matter how drunk I am. 2. I don't get hangovers, no matter how much I drink.

I've had friends who stopped drinking for personal or health reasons and started up again but in moderation. I have friends who don't drink at all. I also have friends who sometimes go overboard in drinking. Do whatever you feel like you want to do. Maybe you want to go dry for a while and see how that goes. You may decide that you are happy and want to stay dry. Maybe you will realize that you are okay with drinking in moderation. Either way, it could be a good thing to try out....to at least discover what you really want and know more about yourself.
 
I probably seem like I drink too much - but I don't think I do.

I tend to go out and have a drink (or 3) perhaps 3-5 nights a week. That said, I work most nights (at a bar/club) and really have only an hour or so to drink before bar time. I enjoy bars for their social component, and rarely drink after-hours or at home. I never drink alone.

I also cannot remember the last time I blacked out (haha), or that I was physically sick from drinking. I usually always drink beer, and even if I am out for 5 hours, I never get past the tipsy/buzzed phase.

I've learnt from all this drinking experience that body chemistry and/or personality can be a big deal in drinking matters. I've had/have friends who go from sober to crazy drunk rather abruptly, and/or cannot seem to stop drinking even after they are visibly trashed - sometimes on less alcohol than I've had.

I guess you as an individual need to reflect on what you can personally handle with alcohol and adjust accordingly. Personally, I just try and drink at a leisurely pace - as drinking itself is not usually my primary motivation. Although I don't have an addictive personality, or get wasted/hung-over easily, I do have a (minor) allergy to some spirits and wine - which results in my face and shoulders becoming flushed/red. This is somewhat embarrasing, and has tended to modulate my drinking over the years. In retrospect, I am probably lucky in that regard.

Good luck on finding your happy medium.
 
Hmm. Maybe a Long Island Iced Tea would be up your alley. Whiskey and coke or rum and coke are both tasty too...and have that nice sweetness.

Believe me, I've had my fair share of Long Island's and rum and cokes as well as every other drink you can imagine.

Long Island Iced Teas will end my night real quick. I'm surprised I didn't get arrested last time I drank a lot of Long Island Iced Teas.

jon
 
I drink and did quit once for about 1/2 a year but then started again. I like the buzz. Not snot-slinging drunk, just a mellow buzz. Relieves the pressure of every day feces.

Can be as little as a glass of red an evening or near a 1/2 a fifth of rum a day. Sometimes I get too busy and forget to drink so I guess its not a true problem.

If weed were legal, I'd probably give up drink (except for my red's.)
 
BUMP: Just saw this thread, have something to add:

In college we used to joke that we were professional drinkers, being able to hold your liquor was not so much a matter of pride (like most of the "amatures" we encountered) but a requisite for enjoying the parties that we frequented. These parties included the standard drinking games: Tippy Cup, Beer Pong, Power Hours (and Centuries), What the F***?, Buzz, and Quarters among others. Hell, for about a year and a half, a my group of friends were the Thursday night regulars at a local bar and our games were the focus of entertainment for the bar. We didn't dwell on it, but everybody on campus took pride in Wisconsin being ranked #1 party school again and again.

It really struck me when we were having a "meet and greet" at the beginning of medical school and a bunch of my classmates (pooled from universities across the country) wanted to play drinking games. They all talked up how they were such big drinkers and had crazy drunk nights...so I watched from the periphery as they played a watered down version of Circle of Death and stupidly tipsy off of the equivalent of a lazy saturday BBQ amount of EtOH. That's when I realized that we we're perhaps over the edge back in Madison.

There were consequences, of course:
- There were the vomiting messes, blackouts, and miscellaneous property damage from parties.
- There were the unanticipated and often regrettable hook-ups.
- The dudes I used to live with had an ecclectic collection of bowel maladies: one had Chron's, one had Ulcerative Colitis, and two had "regular" earth-shaking bowel-movements twice weekly. Well, the wheat-germ of beer (or most liquors) often saw the collision of those problems on our one bathroon on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday mornings.

But those were offset largely by the amazing stories we accumulated and great times we had while drinking.

I don't drink much now though. Partially because I don't have the time due to my studies and responsibilities of professional school. Partially because I regularly am training for running events. But mostly because it doesn't excite me as much as it used to...the novelty has worn off, drinks are expensive in Chicago-land bars, and the bar fly women are the spent jet-trash type that don't inspire the "thrill of the hunt" so to speak (not to mention, many of them smell strangely like fish...think BV). I do enjoy the occasional bender (post-exam...etc.) but its not our standard fare of entertainment anymore.

That said, I tend to look down upon people who patently refuse to drink having never drunk before. I don't know why. Perhaps its residual from the college days, where those sort of people were "dry rags" so to speak. However, I realize that they are (knowingly or unknowingly) much more enlightened than people who drink religiously. I feel I could go on quite a bit more, for example about what EtOH does mechanistically, hangovers, alcoholism, medical consequences, or the various life experiences that have shaped who I am that were mostly fueled by EtOH. But, I think I'll just trail off here...
 
The other week I went out to a tavern in the hopes of getting slightly buzzed to help lift my spirits (it had been a bad week). Three margaritas later I STILL felt nothing, and as I didn't feel like spending more money, I paid my tab and left. My friend Eric said to me, "David, maybe you have a problem." :p

Then on Friday I made a couple of margaritas for myself and it hit me pretty good. I guess it just all depends...
 
Fortunately, I don't drink at all, and never have. Job stress and all, would lead me to want to get really drunk somedays. :p

And no telling what I would do to someone else when drunk...
 
I drink alcohol maybe once a month, sometimes not even that. Some months I might have a single drink one two separate occasions. That rarely happens.

Now tea, that's another story. I drink lots of tea, up to 4-6 cups a day. But there are no negative side effects, and I don't "crave" it when I don't have it, so I'm good. I also drink many different kinds, from Oolong, green tea, black tea, wheat tea, and genmaicha, etc.
 
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