I don't think that's entirely the case (in this case anyway). I think it's more of practicing on how to respond to jerks when it happens that's the key. If I ignored the post and responded to the newer post from aigoya (which I didn't see at the time until I posted my initial response to unamused), that would of done the same effect. I can relate to what your saying though, but it's not just as simple as ignoring a response that prevents other people from responding similarly. Everyone is different and I'm sure you would deal with this situation differently to me. I complained about what he said, he explained his (by saying he said it as a hard joke), I explained my side of view and obviously nothing has been said about it since, since there's nothing more to say about it.
And I'm glad I'm not alone with this friction issue - thanks to people that have confirmed. I've purchased that Power Support Trackpad Film, will see if it remedies the problem

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