i guess i could use that excuse too, holding me back from upgrading my original CD MBP to a new one.. but alas the actual reason is im a poor uni student. haha.
even if you compare two MBP models ago to the current, the difference is still minimal in CPU efficiency. GPU is basically exactly the same (8600 = 9600 etc).. the only difference is RAM, latency wise (which you have demonstrated) isnt as reliable but performs much better in other tests..
so ideally, the only time when you should upgrade (IMO) is when you notice that your current machine is becoming too slow for you. i think thats a good time to get an upgrade.
i MOST certainly need an upgrade, but im poor.. haha.
probably a good idea that you are staying with your classic MBP, the difference is tiny - unless you want the 'new' look then there is really no need to upgrade. everything is the same basically except for the 'new' technology RAM and new exterior case.