OK well good news
Despite the sarcasm in this thread, and behavior i am SURE none would partake in if we were face to face, I CAN CONFIRM a clean restore worked for me.
SURE it sucked redoing everything, but 3 hours into it, my battery is 99%- at this point yesterday i would be in the 50% range
SO there you have it. There must be some app or some corruption causing the iphone to drain battery like mad since 4.3
that could explain why some folks dont see the drain, while most others do.
i have IP4