kalisphoenix said:PfftNot in the Navy I was in.
I'll assume you weren't in the Israeli Defense Forces, then.
thedude110 said:I'm also wary of "military maturity." There is something beautiful and human in being lost -- in not knowing what "the right thing to do" is. To be human is to be, at least in part, up front and honest in our desperation. Sharronda's actions (and the implicit racism in the mockery of her name upsets me) demanded a courage that few of us in this forum could summon, and they reflect an emotional depth that many of us have never plumbed.
All of this is not a slight against those who are 18 and "responsible." But god knows we also need 18 year olds to challenge the very defiinition of "responsibility" we so readily impose (and presuppose).
I couldn't care less about what Sharronda's name was. She attacked someone with a hot iron because she thought the room mate had a video camera hidden. That's not responsible-- she could have killed her room mate accidentally. If I attacked you, do I have courage? To some degree. But is that the wisest course to take? Probably not. Sharronda did sound like she needed some kind of mental help. But how was what she did responsible?