Easy there, fan boy!
What are these dozens of alternatives that you're referencing? Care to provide some links? I'm not aware of anything, other than an iPod or iPhone, that Apple plays nice with. What are these dozens of alternatives that you know of that seamlessly integrate with the Apple "experience"? If Apple didn't make it next to impossible, you wouldn't have companies like doubleTwist or the makers of the Palm Pre essentially hacking iTunes to make it work (and then have Apple breaking the functionality at every opportunity to maintain their chokehold).
Apple is adopting a lot of very unsettling practices in my opinion. Taking part in the Apple "ecosystem" is a choice, sure - but shouldn't I have the choice to get the best experience out of any device I choose to use with my Apple computer and not have Apple intentionally handicapping their competitors on their operating system?