Of course I do, as she should as well. The issue here is what is considered "good".
I'm in my late 20s and finding girls w/ low drama and baggage has become an increasing challenge. I hate the ***** Bay Area, it's a damn big sausage fest lol.
Seriously, are decent girls so damn hard to find in California?![]()
Born and raised in CA and only just moved back east,
I can tell you that the level of crap is all over the globe you just have to weave through it. I know it took me quite a long time to find the one who matters and while that still puts me in the ranks among the single people ... I'm comfortable in knowing that someone exists even if they're unaware that I exist.![]()
You can have plenty of drama (and baggage) without entering into any external relationship. Most of us have enough dramas in our lives simply from mediating the competition between our various selves.One way of avoiding drama is to avoid relationships.
You can have plenty of drama (and baggage) without entering into any external relationship. Most of us have enough dramas in our lives simply from mediating the competition between our various selves.
I'm in my late 20s and finding girls w/ low drama and baggage has become an increasing challenge. I hate the ***** Bay Area, it's a damn big sausage fest lol.
Seriously, are decent girls so damn hard to find in California?![]()
And Skunk, might I suggest an exorcism or three? It's much easier not to have any internal conflict if you're cold, soulless and have no compassion or pity.
[Workaholics]s' the sort of person you might want to go out with, but s/he just doesn't have the time.
What would be the point of a life with no internal conflict?And Skunk, might I suggest an exorcism or three? It's much easier not to have any internal conflict if you're cold, soulless and have no compassion or pity.
Wrong turn.Long trip?
I'm none of those people.Ugh. You're not one of those "soulmate" people, are you?
That's a buncha bunk.
"I don't have the time" is just another way of saying "I can't make it work," because for every person who is "too busy," there's another person out there with the same job and is just as busy, if not more busy, yet manages well with a spouse and kids.
No one's job is such that they don't have time. It's a convenient excuse when you just don't want to admit to yourself that you've de-prioritized that aspect of life. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, if that's what you choose. People just need to stop pretending it's anything but personal choice that they're not engaging in meaningful relationships.
What would be the point of a life with no internal conflict?
Even if you find one, how will you afford her. You folks in Calif. are broke.I'm in my late 20s and finding girls w/ low drama and baggage has become an increasing challenge. I hate the ***** Bay Area, it's a damn big sausage fest lol.
Seriously, are decent girls so damn hard to find in California?![]()
You seem to have written this under the supposition that I would generally disagree with any of that. "I don't have the time" is, however, the common refrain. They wouldn't be called "workaholics" if it were healthy.
With that said, I do know more than one person who has lost or jeopardized a relationship over a busy time at work that simply was not optional at the time. If you don't like it, there are plenty of barista jobs in town where the hours are nice and steady. May heaven help you if you're one of those poor suckers who dreams of creating video games for a living.