Thanks everyone, I'm upgrading the HDD so I'll add the RAM as well if I can find it...
The bright green things in center of the picture.
What memory did you fit?
I just bought 2 x 4GB Crucial 1333mhz for my late 2009 MBP 13" and it wouldn't work. It only worked if i put one 1066mhz and one 1333mhz stick in.