For me, it comes down to where I am. At a desk, it's the rMBP hands-down. In my lap, nothing beats the Air.
Speaking from personal preference, and with a heavy focus on comfort when typing rather than screen quality etc., the solidity of the MBP makes it feel more weighted in my lap than it actually is, whereas the Air is so light you scarcely feel it at all. By contrast, and for the same reason, I find the MBP a thousand times more pleasant and enjoyable to use when sitting at a desk.
Speaking from personal preference, and with a heavy focus on comfort when typing rather than screen quality etc., the solidity of the MBP makes it feel more weighted in my lap than it actually is, whereas the Air is so light you scarcely feel it at all. By contrast, and for the same reason, I find the MBP a thousand times more pleasant and enjoyable to use when sitting at a desk.