Ever have an 'Extended Hookup'?

[maestro55]

No I haven't (too be honet, I am a still a virgin). However, if I met someone who was attracted to me, and I was attracted to her (and obviously we would have to know and trust eachother) but we didn't want to get into a real relationship, there is nothing wrong with the idea. But I would prefer to be in a long-term relationship that involved an intellectual connection.

 

[electronboy]

i'd have to say i spent most of my senior year of high school doing exactly that with boys and girls.

Now your getting me all excited! The extended hookup is the best. No drama, no strings, just plain fun!

 

[electronboy]

no i havent. and i dont intend to in the future...it just seems....wierd. regular one to one sex does me fine thankyou.

That's cool except when your partner wants to withold sex.

 

[macOSX-tastic]

That's cool except when your partner wants to withold sex.

of course. it was kind of implied i hope! by regular, i mean normal, not whenever it suits me. i can see how that could cause confusion.


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[Boggle]

Talk about beginners luck

28 years, never came close but then last January...I had two going @ the same time (This would seem even more improbable if I posted a picture of me). I met them 24 hrs apart, They knew about each other. They were both damn attractive. And they both suggested the "no-strings-attached" relationship. I ended one 2 months later (she was sharp as a bowling ball), and the other ended 4 months later, but we still hang out w/ regularly and have become pretty good buddies too.

 

[jdechko]

...she was sharp as a bowling ball...

Awesome, I love using that phrase (except I say sharp as a marble). Anyway, on topic, I've only had one partner, my wife.

 

[iSaint]

I voted yes because one 'relationship' I had in college was for her convenience. She had another boyfriend she traveled with, and called me when she was in the mood for local stuff.

 

[jsw]

Can't say that I have, but then I've only had the one monogomous relationship.

Is the "monogomous" redundant, or was only one of your relationships monogomous?

For me, no. Can't say there was never anything casual, but that which was casual was never extended over a long period of time.