Hey,
Yeah I get it was a bit tough, but somebody said it to me ~3 years ago and it just motivated me further, I'm only 20 myself. Basically I did college (UK Mid school aged 16-18) where I studied computer programming as one of my 3 modules which gave me a good a basic grasp of programming basics, and then got a job at the company I work for as an iOS developer. Money isn't great atm but I have good careers prospects and there funding my part time degree
(Not sure how my work takes with identifying online so I'm going to err on the side of caution, but you'll have heard of it's US or UK segment
)
PM me if you'd like to talk more
James