Well, as with the discussion of ZFS, it's quite possible that Apple will move to an open standard at some point. I don't know if WinFS will ever see the light of day, but I would not hold my breath *cough* Metro *cough* that Microsoft ever will.
However, when it comes to service on the network, it doesn't really make that much difference. I mean, if the file system supports Unix permissions and ownership, and it gets served from a computer that supports it, it doesn't really matter to the user on the Mac what the filesystem on the server is. That's the core concept of NAS. The problem really is most severe when you're using removable media that gets mounted on multiple computers with different FS's.