My father passed away in 1999, so Father's Day still brings a twinge, but I've learned that the best way to deal with this is to remember and cherish the many happy memories of our time together....
This year in particular, though, was more difficult since my mother justt passed away in September of 2005. It was a bit hard not to focus on the fact that as an only child, I'm truly all alone now and at times acutely feel that way.... It really helped when a friend called today and invited me to join her and her parents tomorrow evening for a somewhat belated dinner/celebration. Her parents are very special to me and this will be very nice. This family really helped me get through what would have been a very difficult Christmas, as well as other holidays.
Have to laugh, though: as soon as I walk into their house tomorrow, Pam's dad is going to say, "oh, I have a couple of computer questions for you...." LOL! Unfortunately for him, while I was away last summer his elderly Windows computer died and so he bought a new one. By the time I got back home and had discovered the joys of a Mac, it was too late for him to go with a Mac, which I think would've served him so much better in many ways than a Windows machine..... Fortunately most of the time I can still remember details from my Windows days and can answer his questions, help him out of a tricky spot, but it would be so nice now if he were running a Mac......