Find My iPhone is not for finding your daughter's iPhone. If it were, it'd be called "Find My Daughter's iPhone."
You should use Loopt or something similar if you want to know where your daughter is. If you can't trust her to go somewhere without secret tracking, then you have a bigger problem than Find My iPhone not being password protected.
If you want a to make it so a potential thief can't disable it, turn on a passcode lock. Then the thief can't even use your iPhone, nor turn off Find My iPhone.
First of all, guess who pays for my teen's iPhone? Me. Guess who's iPhone that makes it? Mine.
Second, as a parent, my #1 job is keeping my daughter safe. If Find My iPhone can help me do that, all the better.
Third, I said NOTHING about secret tracking. Do you KNOW how irresponsible and even stupid teenagers can be? Can I tell you how many times my teen has left things behind at school or a friends but was convinced she had brought them home? In case you didn't notice, the iPhone is a bit expensive so protecting my investment is within my right - especially since *I paid for it*.
Fourth, I trust my daughter, but she has EARNED that trust. It isn't blind trust she gets just for existing. She's a good kid, but like all teenagers she's still learning. Teenagers explore and rebel and stretch their wings as they break away - and a NORMAL part of that process is lying. Period. They ALL do it. It's just like parental controls on her computer that I slowly lifted over time (as she EARNED more trust and privacy). And by the way, I was HONEST with her about exactly that. I would no more let my daughter sit on her computer for 12 straight hours than I would let her watch TV all day... and she's a better kid for it.
All that said, thanks for the information about Loopt. I'll check it out.
Last but not least, I already said the passcode was not the solution. I don't want the whole phone locked. Some of us don't like having to enter a password every time we use the phone. It seems to me, it's pretty obvious that something like "Find My iPhone" should have it's own password - just like parental controls or voice mail.
I'm not sure why people try to give parenting/relationship advice when someone asks a technical question here.
Anyways, you can try setting up the me account on her phone too and just toggle email/contacts/calendar to Off. I haven't tried this. Also, you can get a family account and get her an account (whether she uses it or not). I think you get 5 accounts total on the family plan.
Thanks...
I'll give that a try. She has her own MobileMe now (we used to have the family account, but as she's gotten older she's needed more features).
more likely than a thief getting your phone, couldn't your daughter find out you have 'find my iphone' installed and turn it off?
Yup, she could. But since we've talked about it already she knows why it's on and WANTS it on. Considering she had an iPod stolen last year, she likes that idea (and what teenager wouldn't) of sending a thief a message remotely - LOL! She also understands why it's important for me to have access to it, and that she'd be in trouble if she turned it off. This is *my* iPhone that I give her the privilege to use. When she buys her own, she can do what she wants.
Yes, that's something 3.1 should cover. The whole password for turning On/Off "Find my iPhone". I hope Apple addresses this issue.
Me too!
I don't know of this one, but I think you can't.
I'm going to explore it some more.
Thanks all,
Amy