I got this working finally... I was doing something wrong in the IP naming because I tried exactly what was in this thread and it didnt work with the IPs I was using...
https://forums.macrumors.com/threads/141589/
IF YOU NEED TO XFER HUGE AMOUNTS OF DATA FROM PC TO MAC, FIREWIRE 800 IS YOUR BEST FRIEND... or a gigabit crossover cable...
https://forums.macrumors.com/threads/141589/
IF YOU NEED TO XFER HUGE AMOUNTS OF DATA FROM PC TO MAC, FIREWIRE 800 IS YOUR BEST FRIEND... or a gigabit crossover cable...