Flight Sim Controller?

Logitech has some nice ones, extreme 3d pro seems to do well for me.

 

If you want closest to the real thing, there's really only one place. Precision flight controls.

Yokes are here.

Very pricey though.

 

you also might want to try CH Products http://www.chproducts.com/retail_flash/index.html
I've never used their products, but a lot of people do and say they're very good (and not as pricey as the PFC hardware). Coincidentally I'm in the same boat as you, but I'm not quite ready to spend $100 for each a yoke, rudder pedals, and throttle quadrant. Good luck!