I had to drive to Byron Bay today. Therefore, I invited a friend so the drive would be more fun. We could make an adventure out of it. I called her and left a message at 9am and I sent a text as well. By 9:30am, she had not got back to me so I left. At 11am, she called me to tell me she could not make it (she was working). When I told her I had already left, she got annoyed. Now why was she angry? She could not make it and I was satisfied she was not able to make it. I was not annoyed she took so long to get back to me considering she was at home and not busy at the time. If she is working, she starts at 10am. Bonus Problem. Why do my guy friends think you need to go out on a weekend and stay out until 1am as a minimum? If I am bored, I am going to leave before that time. Now they do not talk to me. I grew up in an Irish Catholic/ Polish Jewish family. It taught me not to screw my friends I fell like I am being screwed because I can and able to think for myself. I do not accept what the majority agree with. Sometimes i wonder why I make friends with people at all. I wish my dog was still around.