After trying both, here is my conclusion:
Parallels 5: Very good performance. Fast resuming/suspending of VMs. BUT, on 10.6.2 it takes about 3-5 minutes to launch due to some conflict with spotlight it seems: https://forums.macrumors.com/threads/821284/
Also, I've had cases where my mouse sensitivity went crazy in OSX due to Parallels.
VMware Fusion 3: I haven't had any real technical issues, but a deal-breaker here is that resuming a VM is unbearably slow. It's faster to just shut down and restart the VM each time to use it.
Parallels 5: Very good performance. Fast resuming/suspending of VMs. BUT, on 10.6.2 it takes about 3-5 minutes to launch due to some conflict with spotlight it seems: https://forums.macrumors.com/threads/821284/
Also, I've had cases where my mouse sensitivity went crazy in OSX due to Parallels.
VMware Fusion 3: I haven't had any real technical issues, but a deal-breaker here is that resuming a VM is unbearably slow. It's faster to just shut down and restart the VM each time to use it.