Guys, I don't think the question was "Could you please help me raise my child?" The question was what should I get her.
Guys, I don't think the question was "Could you please help me raise my child?" The question was what should I get her.
Maybe I'm living in the past but she's 8 and no 8 year old needs a £400 phone!
I'd say get her the iPod since that's what she said she likes, and a £10 payg phone.
It's the wise parent who knows their child and makes the right choices for him or her.
When I was younger my friend got an RC car. After seeing how cool his was I asked for and recieved one as well.
Hmm, you're making me rethink my chainsaw purchase for my 4 year old ...
Perhaps (your comment on living in the past) . . . times have changed and children (like adults) are different. Some are more responsible, some are more or less mature than others their age, some are more intelligent, some have more or less self discipline. It's the wise parent who knows their child and makes the right choices for him or her.
She's only 8, and you are about to send her the message that, just because your friend has an iPod, you'll get one from me. I wouldn't buy her any of the above as HER gift.
If you have to get her something, find a used iPod on Craigslist. Call it yours, but let her borrow it. She needs to learn how to own and take care of valuables. Don't buy her anything brand new until she has earned it by showing she is responsible enough to.
I'm sure that your parents made the right choice for you 🙂
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Okay, I get the humor here. BUT there are some parents out there who just might do that or something similar. I've seen it 😱
Agreed. I 'handed down' my old iP4 to my kid without a screen protector, and it looks like Wolverine tried to play angry birds with it or something. Granted she is....3YO but STILL!
Good info from everyone. Thanks for the advice.
BTW I'm still torn lol.
My daughter IMHO is a pretty awesome girl. Responsible, smart, outgoing, and humble. It's why she has so many friends, yet will talk to anyone. Me, my wife, and my son all have iphone 4s (son is 12). I guess I'm saying I felt she was a lil too young for an iphone 4s, but i wanted to get her a multimedia device she can play with. Yet I know if she goes anywhere (sleepovers, etc), it'd be nice if she could call me anytime, or I could track her whereabouts. I was waiting for the mini, but was disappointed that gps wasn't a standard feature in the wifi model.
So here i am now lol. BTW my daughter is playing on my iphone 4s right now lol