Get the iPad. Don't look back. You will enjoy it. It is amazing!!!!!!!
yes you might look back in a month or two when more android device come up with better screens, better resolution, more memory, open file system and most of all java and flash.
up to you. i bought my ipad three months ago when there was virtually nothing else on the market and i don't regret it. right now if i would simply wait at least until march to see how the RIM playbook competes.
and while usually i would agree with other folks on this forum that if you wait you will never buy anything i can't do it this time. there are certain milestones that are important and for you it seems to be java and flash, for me it is an open file system and ability to download attachments without buying an app.