Girl advice.

Thank you google

 

Don't stress over it, if you like her and want to go out, then just ask her out
Try not to make a big deal over it and keep it casual and light and see where things go

 

Congrats on the diet now man up and call her. You were too drunk to figure out what she said and now you need to follow up. If I thought that someone liking what I put on facebook was a sign that they were into me I would look like a total tramp.

 

She either thinks you're "sweet" and you have no chance or you were so drunk you didn't get the clues properly.

Text her and tell her you had a good time the other night and ask her if she would like to go there again.

 

Stop analyzing and send her a message on facebook.

 

Just don't try to be cute and clever, just be straight up

 

You did all that work and finally asked her and now you're afraid to find out what happened? Just talk to her already.

 

Just explain to her what you put in the thread about your confusion!

Nice one for going on a diet and losing all that weight, and manning up to ask a girl out. Takes balls.

I'm sure if you explained everything to her it'll be alright... maybe ask her out to somewhere that doesn't involve getting drunk ask her out for coffee or something!

 

Bad advice.

Man up and CALL the woman.

Facebook = passive = beta = bad
Phone call = active = alpha = good

 

You must have missed the part where he said he didn't have her number and that is would have to be a FB message

The world has changed and a FB message would certainly be OK

 

Only read the OP.

Yes the world has "changed" but like so many other things it really hasn't.

Anyways, then yes Facebook would be fine.

 

lol don't overthink things, it'll just turn out worse for you

be confident and take initiative and message her about it. You can even be clever and assume she did say yes and ask when she's free

 

Confidence confidence confidence. You've done the hard part (losing weight, congrats by the way) and gotten yourself put together. Now it's just going after what you want.

I've been approached by guys who honestly weren't my type but were confident in themselves and it helps a lot. I've also been approached by guys who look like they'd be a lot of fun but were immature/not confident and it's a big negative. "You're going to hate me asking this...but *if* I asked you out"...you're sending out negative vibes already and asking her out hypothetically. OK, you're drunk but if this was the girl you've liked since your teenage years, it should be like a cop pulling you over: time to instantly sober up and go for it. Letting the situation pass, not cool.

Since we aren't sure what she said and can only go by the kiss on the cheek at the end, my girly situational guess is:

- She wants to be friends, kiss on the cheek was like a "nice seeing you" type gesture.

- She was blitzed out of her mind as well and wasn't sure what she was talking about. If this were the case and she liked you, it would have been a kiss on the lips.

The not having a phone # yet facebook sort of complicates it a bit so I'd say you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain by just messaging her, ask her for her phone # and then ask her out OVER THE PHONE. Yes FB has changed the way we communicate but asking someone out over FB isn't cool.

 

GL; I would have advised for you to get her number after a fb chat and then called her on the phone couple of days later.

 

Dude! You are in.

Call her. Now, the weekend is nigh.

And throttle back on the drinking for the first date.

Cheers.

 

Do keep us posted on how it went!

 

I can't get past the I lost 6 stones part. Is that still used as a measurement in some places? Do scales actually say "stones" on them instead of pounds or ounces or whatever?

 

I lost one stone before, came out when I pee'd it was painful.

 

Jesus, did it weigh 14 pounds, cause, dude, you must be WRECKED down there.

 

Ouch

 

Was it in the kidney?