This has been bothering me for a while now ... Last friday, I was at a party with a girl. Kissing and dancing and stuff. It was amazing. But then I got a message on my cell phone ... My ex girlfriend that saw me kissing. The thought it was fake and totally freaked out at me when I found her. After that she sends me a letter telling me she still cares about me. At this moment I just hate her and think she totally went psycho when I dumped her ... In all my ex's that I had, this one is the worse one ... And I had the longest relation with her as well ... 3 years, 4 months ... Pretty long but if I see her now, I'm thinking "Why did I even want a relation with her??" ... Just because she changed to much ... She isn't herself anymore and she blames it on me while it's her fault we broke up ... Then I have my eyes set on another girl. The girl I was kissing ... Well the little ex boyfriend of her is being a total *******. He keeps on trying to kiss her and just is touching her a bit too much for just friends ... I didn't see it because of my training period ... But he's so confident that they'll get back together again ... She told him 6 times already that she doesn't want him ... He was totally acting "macho-ish" today with some of his friends ... The girl asked if he could stop it and he said "I'll stop if you stop dating Wim". That would be me ... I found it very lame and never thought that he would be so jealous on my luck with that girl. Sure we aren't together but we are great friends ... We both want each other but she wants to remain single a moment ... Those two things have been bothering me for the last days ... I'm totally going to freak out one day to that guy. Anyone have the same story or a bit different? Or someone have some advice?