Hey guys, bare with me, this might be kind of long. I knew this girl for a while and then we sort of hooked up at a party... yes I know that's a terrible way to start a relationship but continued talking after that and we started dating. Everything was great for about 8 or so months, we did everything together and had a lot of fun. Then everything started to go down hill. I have a friend who is a girl and we really are just friends and every time I said I was going to be hanging out with her (we didn't even hang out alone, we hung out with other people) she would flip out and get mad at me and "break up with me." I can't really talk though because I would get mad at her when she would go out with her skanky friends to parties. So things were pretty rough the last couple of months but we stayed together because we did care about eachother but obviously had trust issues. Then around a month and a half ago she broke up with me because she "needed time to be single and focus on herself" which I knew that was just a lame excuse because I've heard it before from other girls. So I was pretty depressed for a while and I blocked her number and all that drama and then someone told me she was dating someone else. (like 3 days after we had broken up...) I went on her Facebook and saw that it was some guy from her new job that she had started about a week before we broke up... suspicious? So I just forget about it and moved on but then last week while on vacation with my family she called me from a number I didn't know and I answered it and she was yelling at me because apparently I had been "talking bad about her" (which I hadn't even mentioned her name since we broke up). Then the next day she has her friend tell me to unblock her number because she had something important to tell me or some bull so I unblock her and she texts me telling me to call her because she needed to apologize so I said I would call her later that night. I called her and she said she apologized for calling me and yelling at me and then she was saying she wasn't over me and that she didn't feel the same way she felt about me with her current boyfriend and she said she loved me and wanted me back and that everything reminded her of me and she thought about me all the time blahblahblah. She also said that she had been logging on her friend's Facebook and looking at mine like every day... creepy much? We started talking about old times and I fell into the trap and wanted her back too. Over the next few days we texted a little bit while I was still on vacation and we talked about getting back together and what we needed to change in the relationship to make it work better this time around and everything was going fine except that she was "scared" to get back into our relationship because she didn't know if we would end up fighting again and her current boyfriend was "stable." I asked her why she would want to stay with someone just because they're "stable" instead of being with someone you truly cared about. I get back in town and ask her if she wants to meet up and talk but she said she couldn't because she had stuff to do so we talked on the phone a little bit and planned to meet up in a couple of days when she was off work. She told me that earlier that day she had talked to her boyfriend and told him she was talking to me again and that she wasn't over me and that she wanted to be with me again. Then she suddenly said I gotta go I'll call you later and hung up before I could even say anything. Later that night I called her to see what she was doing and just to talk but she ignored my call so I called a few more times and texted her but she didn't respond. I saw on her Facebook a little later that she was hanging out with her boyfriend and I tried calling again to see what was up and she sent me a text telling me to "leave her alone" and "get over her." I was furious because she was the one who called me in the first place about getting back together so I sent her a nasty text back and then she called me an insensitive ******. Am I missing something here? She called me to get back together and then made me look like an idiot when she denied me... wtf? I'm not sure if I really miss her or I just miss the feeling of being in love and having someone that you can do anything with and talk to about anything. She was my bestfriend but I don't want to be just friends with her. I know you guys probably don't give a crap about this haha but can anyone shed some light on the situation? I guess I'm just going to move on again and if she calls with that bullsh again I won't fall for it.