So I am or was dating this girl. ya i don't know If we are together. but we go to school together but we live about 3 hours away during the summer. well sometimes she would say i'll call you back and then never call me back. then one night when i had been drinking i freaked out cuz she hadn't called me back and i left message that weren't exactly the best. the next day we talk i apologized she said she half accepted my apology and said she didn't want to talk about it anymore and we could talk later. she said that three days in a row then said she wanted to take a break so should could figure out what she wants. so now we are on this break thing but we still talk about once a day, but i'm nervous trying to everything perfect trying to find out what i should do and I asked her what i was supposed to do during this time to which i get a response "you are making it to easy for me you are putting yourself on a silver platter, I like to work for what I get" so then then i was like ok play hard to get, so i use all my energy and stop calling her she calls me once the next day say i'll call you later. since then i have had two convos through texting that were pretty short in the 3 days since we last talked on the phone. I think it is kinda unfair to leave me in the dark like this but i Don't want to say that cuz our relationship is on the line and I am deeply in Love with this girl. I am so lost on what to do and i am in dire need of help. so if anyone has any suggestions please please please help me!!!!!!!!!!
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First of all better punctuation, That was very hard to read.
Now, you have 2 choses, don't grovel all over her, let her call you once in a while. You are coming off to needy and that is the problem. If she likes you the way you like her she will call you. Or ask her straight up, where do we stand.
Now, you have 2 choses, don't grovel all over her, let her call you once in a while. You are coming off to needy and that is the problem. If she likes you the way you like her she will call you. Or ask her straight up, where do we stand.
I hate to be a grammar nazi and I know relationship problems are difficult to discuss, but some paragraphing/grammar might be nice too 
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Let me gat this straight. You joined a a computer forum to get help with dating? There may be a few sites you should have tried first.
My advice: forget her and move on. Buy a new Mac you'll feel better.
My advice: forget her and move on. Buy a new Mac you'll feel better.
We can only help you if you've got a Mac.
*stupid question time* Is this really in the rules? (Can only ask for help in the community discussion forums if you own/plan to buy a Mac)? >.>
1. No, you don't have to have a Mac. BV is making the funny. A surprising number of posters here don't.
2. I suspect your posting style reflects your emotional state. Steady yourself, take a deep breath, and get on with things you have to do. You are all over the place trying to be what someone else wants. Be yourself with confidence.
3. Good luck!
2. I suspect your posting style reflects your emotional state. Steady yourself, take a deep breath, and get on with things you have to do. You are all over the place trying to be what someone else wants. Be yourself with confidence.
3. Good luck!
I love how the responses used worse grammar and spelling than the original post!
It does sound like she is messing with you, and looks like you are falling for it. Keep your distance, because a relationship is a two-way street.
It does sound like she is messing with you, and looks like you are falling for it. Keep your distance, because a relationship is a two-way street.
We can only help you if you've got a Mac.
I do think it's peculiar that a person's first post on a computer-themed forum would be about a romantic problem. Seems to be the wrong target market.
Er. No.
Anyway...
I've reread your post. The signals don't sound good, I'm afraid.
Most Mac users have a romantic attachment to their computers. Makes perfect sense to me.
Oooh, I didn't even notice that.
I wonder if:
1) The girl knows the OP's username, so he created a new one.
2) Long time reader, first time poster.
3) Someone who has gotten great advice from us geniuses here recommended MR on Dr. Phil
Hahah! Hah! lolWe can only help you if you've got a Mac.
All I can say is you have to be very sensitive, sincere, and nice with her.
Preferably sung:
"Do you love meeeeeeeeeeee! Do you do you!"
Nah... Mail her this note:
do u luv me? if so, chek this box [ ]
Don't forget the self-addressed, stamped envelope so she can mail it back.
I'm never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you...Never gonna make you cry, never gonna say goodbye, never gonna tell a lie...and hurt you.
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