A lot of people only take cheques and money orders. I'm going to sound old, but 6 or 7 years ago when I first started using eBay, it wasn't an odd thing at all to see people who would only take cheques or money orders. Sure, PayPal existed, and so did BidPay, and neither were costly or difficult to use. It really just hadn't been adopted yet. Cheques and money orders provide an ease of use. If I, as a seller, take a PayPal payment, I have to set up an account with them, and then jump through a number of hoops to finally get the cash in my hands. With a cheque or money order, I walk to the bank, and I'm done. I'll say it again, it seems like a number of people WANT this to be a scam. Have a little faith in your fellow human being, and don't just assume that because of a few potentially suspicious items that this individual wants nothing but to scam you.