Can anyone recommend me an Apple endorsed car charger that is half decent and charges at similar rates to the wall socket?
I dont think this is possible. The wall socket voltage is much much much higher than any voltage your car battery could put out. Use a car charger as a "crutch" to pull you through while youre on the road and as soon as you get into your destination, plug it in to a real socket.
To give you guys an idea of how slow the powerjolt SE is at charging my iPhone 4, in 5 hours it charged only 37%. This however was while using turn by turn gps navigation at the same time. Is this normal?