grr! ok i have a dilemma... I love adium b/c its so customizable and i love the buddy list and all the features, but i cant send files to aim users b/c it only rarely works! Ichat on the other hand has a great interface and files transfer well, but the buddy list... grr the buddy list, despite having groups it just shows one whole list, not divided into groups, and the names are so big only a few fit, i cant make the names smaller, or show groups, if i put show buddy group then it doesnt show any of the other groups... surely theres a way to get it to show all groups! i know the new version of ichat is supposedly having tabs, which is great b/c i hate having 20 windows open, but with the F10 key, thats ok i can deal with it... but the buddy list, i just hate that! the only solution ive found is to use adium and then switch to ichat when i transfer a file... but thats gotten amazingly annoying! Can someone, anyone! help me?