For people that just use computers to web browse, email, listen to music, watch Netflix, do word processing homework, maybe play some Facebook games, and other minimal tasks... they are unlikely to ever need 16 gigs much less within the next 4 years. 8 gigs is plenty for those type of people. Do not mislead them with your opinion.
With every iteration of OS, iLife, and iWork bundles, progressively more memory is required. I don't think anyone is misleading anyone here. The point of the OP is spot on. With every iteration these apps add more and more features and they require more and more memory.
I am indeed amazed with people that have paid quite a bit of money and then after a year they post questions like "MBP 2012, should I upgrade to 2013". I paid a small fortune for my late MBP 2008. At that time I maxed out the RAM and the HD. 4 years down the line, I added more RAM and doubled the HD, total cost £120; let me tell you Aperture with 4GB and Aperture with 8GB is a different thing
The OP is spot on, a couple of years down the line, we will be getting posts about "stuck with 8GB, what can I do?". Well one thing you can do, is save a little bit more and get the 16GB -- I would argue the same about the SSD, but at least that one is not soldered on.