I am asking this for a friend because she lost her computer in her divorce and cannot get it back. She has an iPhone 3G and when she had her computer she had songs in her iTunes that she transferred to the iPhone. Since she got divorced and lost access to the computer she has not updated her software. And she has purchased a bunch of songs using the iTunes app on her iPhone--they were directly downloaded. And of course she has added contacts and notes and whatnot. What should she do? I want to help her upgrade her software, at a minimum, but we are worried about syncing her computer on my computer (or anyone elses, even a new one) because we think she will lose all the songs that came from the old computer. But what about the ones she bought on the iPhone...will she lose those too? We are confused. If someone can help or direct me to where I can find the answer I would appreciate it. Thanks! I am using a PC if that matters.