So i've got a little dilemma here i'm going to be laid off next week and i've been looking like crazy for a job here in charlotte. I'm in the telecommunications sales industry and i've done help desk work. So i applied for a job in oklahoma city working for COX Cable it's great career move working as an assistant manager making alot of money in their store. Now they have given me a phone interview and they are going to bend the rules and instead of me having 2 "Face to Face" interviews they will make one of them over the phone. The job has a pension. So my partner is freaking out because he can't move because were in a lease. I told him i would fly back every weekend, We could video chat on skye, Facetime ,Etc. Heck i will even pay my portion of the bills untill the lease is up. The market here is terrible in charlotte and he doesn't get this. I'm the type of person who can't stand the thought of not working even if it's for a month. So has anyone ever went thru this? And am i being selfish? Wanting a pension and a bright future for both of us.