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It's possible he had anesthesia, ...

Nope, he didn't.

And I was in the room when it happened. It's not normal for that to happen, but I asked to be there and was allowed to be.

You're obviously very passionate about the subject, but not every case is as horrible as what I'm sure is in that video you mentioned. That's like trying to form an unbiased opinion on roses while watching an anti-rose video. ;)
 
*cough* We're getting a bit OT here. If you wish to discuss the pros/ cons of circumcision, please do so in this thread after reading it please. ;)

mrgreen4242, truly, congratulations on hearing of this great new addition to your life. :)
 
after reading it please. ;)

We're supposed to read threads before we post in them?? Why?! ;)

I don't necessarily think this is off topic. Opinions and advice was asked for and it's being given.

But obviously this subject matter is intense enough that it could destroy the integrity of thise thread. I've spoken my piece about it, and I'm done. :)

mrgreen, here's something else to keep in mind. Every child develops differently, and just because they're not walking or talking when the books or friends say they should be certainly doesn't mean they're developmentally delayed or anything like that. If you ever have any concerns, ask your pediatrician and get their opinion. No sense in worrying yourself sick because neighbor John said little jrgreen should be walking by now. ;)
 
We haven't decided on circumcision yet. While I appreciate the fact that everyone has opinions on the subject, I feel it's a pretty personal choice for parents to make.

Anyways, my wife came across this company (www.genetree.com) that does very early gender testing based on a small blood sample from pregnant mothers... they claim accuracy as early as 6 weeks after conception (that's about 8 weeks pregnant on the normal 40 week schedule). She asked her Mom if she had ever heard of it (she's an RSN and now does medical research evaluation for a University) and while she hadn't, some research showed it to be legit and now my mother in law wants to do it.

I don't have any problem with it, personally. We were going to find out during the 18-20 week ultrasound anyways, so it doesn't change anything for us, but I balked at the fee for the service - $250! Her Mom wants to pay for it (she's fairly "well to do" so it's not a big deal) so whatever. :p

Anyways, we'll know the sex of the baby in ~3 weeks or so, which is pretty cool, imo. I think/hope it's a boy, she wants a girl, but we don't REALLY care either way. I bring all this up because it's a) interesting, to me at least and b) raises some interesting questions.

Since they can determine gender with 99% accuracy during the first trimester with this test, and relatively inexpensively ($250 is a lot of money, but it's not absurd by any stretch especially considering how much it costs to have a baby anyways) there's concern that people who really want to have a specific gender will use the test and abort the fetus if it's not the one they want. With the more traditional methods people don't know the sex until at least half way through, which is typically too late to abort the pregnancy without good medical reason.

Now, as I said, we don't really care what we have, but I can certainly see the concerns of people surrounding this kind of testing. What to you all think?
 
I think not knowing he sex of your baby is one of the few times adults can experience the surprise and excitement of Santa again. I'm against knowing in advance - unless there's a litter in there and practical considerations take over.
 
Congrats. My wife and I have a couple years to go until we can have one, but I've forwarded a lot of the advice in this thread to her.

swingerofbirch, I'm not going to let my boys get circumcised. I'm glad to see someone else holds my (apparently minority) opinion.
 
To the OP, congrats! I have 3 (5, 3, and 1 month old) boys, and it is the best thing I have ever done.

Heh. I'm not thinking clearly. I saw the ages and thought they were all in units of months, and I was like, "Does the wife have multiple uteruses on some sort of turntable assembly?"
 
Congrats mrgreen4242, just had our first 6 months ago. There's nothing like it. Be sure to be extremely nice to your wife as she'll be going through a lot.

Of course, every child is different. Ours is a complete blessing. He started sleeping through the night at 3wks and consistently sleeps 10-12 hours a night. We get to go out late (stayed up til 1am Friday, and 4am a few months ago - he just sleeps). We took him to see Spiderman 3, and he did great. We're going to take him to see Ratatouille. He slept all the way to Seattle (6hr night flight) and did pretty well on the return trip (cried once in midair).

...because the next 3 years you'll be singing dora the explorer theme song to yourself at work. :)

HA! Too true. I just made a comment to my office-mates today about having the Wiggles songs stuck in my head, but the kid loves it, so what am I to do. :eek:

A couple of pics of the little guy; I love his expression in the space needle pic.
 

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He slept all the way to Seattle (6hr night flight) and did pretty well on the return trip (cried once in midair).

You are brave!

Coincidentally my little boy's first flight was to Seattle as well, but that's only about 45 minutes for us. ;)

He did okay, but we made sure he didn't nap before the flight, so he fell asleep pretty early on. He absolutely loved the take-off and staring out the window at everything.

Cute pictures too! It's so bizarre to me to think of my boy being six months old. He's only 20 months now, but there's such a difference in those ages it's like night and day! I love being able to run around with him at the park and watch him play on the slide and play catch with him. It's just awesome. :D

In a year you'll be looking back at those pictures in Seattle and be amazed at the differences.
 
swingerofbirch, I'm not going to let my boys get circumcised. I'm glad to see someone else holds my (apparently minority) opinion.


Thank you for the show of solidarity. We are only in the minority in the United States and Israel. And the numbers in the United States have changed drastically. More and more parents are opting to leave their children intact.

We haven't decided on circumcision yet. While I appreciate the fact that everyone has opinions on the subject, I feel it's a pretty personal choice for parents to make.

I encourage you to see this as a personal choice for each individual, not for the parents of an individual. I think if you have a son it is his right to choose how to alter his body once he becomes of the age that he would be allowed to choose any other cosmetic surgery. I understand completely that it is your legal right to choose to alter his body, I just don't believe at all, that it is anyone's ethical right, knowing what we do now about circumcision, to make that choice for another individual. I am glad you are still open to not going through with it. If a stranger is willing to make a fool of himself and spend this much time on the subject, maybe it's something to think about. And please don't take it personally. I know I am annoying, and I give my opinion to every expectant parent I have ever spoken to, and I know that in a number of cases I have changed the parents mind, which makes it all worth it in my mind to be seen as a nuisance or annoying.
 
I love his expression in the space needle pic.

Haha that's great. He looks like dead-serious and fearless leader of some sort of expedition, slightly angry that the rest of his crew don't appreciate the gravity of the situation. :D
 
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